by Mary Hickey
24 June 2008

In my earlier GammonVillage columns on chouette, I showed you some ways to exploit your opponent's psychological weaknesses for your benefit. It follows, of course, that you want to avoid letting your opponents do likewise to you. But the toughest opponent to overcome psychologically is not that big guy at the club who is always bragging how great he is, or some on-line legend in his own mind who types rude things in the chat window whenever you make a mistake (or at least when he thinks you do).
As you may already know, your most difficult opponent is the one who is always with you—the one you see in the mirror before you head out the door to the game. This chapter will help you make that difficult person into an ally instead of an enemy when you play backgammon, and perhaps in the rest of your life as well.
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Nice perspectives. I know it's nice to keep things in 10's, but I would add some qualities that I consider key as well as your 10: 11. experience; 12. a great memory (reference positions) 13. math skills 14. stamina; 15. general game playing skills; 16. honest, realistic self-assessment.
This last is perhaps the most important. I believe the most important key to winning, any competition, is to be better than your opponents. Knowing when not to sit down at the table is the most important decision a player can make.
Great list, Mary! Question is whether these attributes can be learned or must you just "have it". I can say that my "tournament toughness" was not entirely something I was born with, but it was cultivated by many years of top level racquetball competition before I ever showed up at a backgammon tournament. Much of it can be learned; the rest you must already have. It is essential to learn to peacefully accept losing at the same time as learning and getting motivated by what it is like to win. I must say that bit about short term memory... What was I about to say? And yeah, counting pips - in the past year, I learned why I have ten fingers and how best to use them. Seriously. I have never lost count since. Understanding and working within your limitations is important. Always enjoying the game and not making it a chore is the key to sustained growth and continued desire. Finally in backgammon, it is important to have a sense of humor. It is the only way to not go crazy from what this game can dish out. Learn to laugh at the dice rather than hating them. Finally, talent. Nothing else matters if you don't have it. Everyone has talent, but everyone must locate theirs and find their calling in life, and if you haven't keep looking. Few of us will ever be a Tiger Woods no matter how many of these attributes we possess and how much we love, play and study golf. But Tiger would not be anywhere near the best without posessing most of these attributes along with incredible talent. Rich
Very good article Mary,i've always wanted to see soemthign like this when i start playing backgammon. Phil also made very good point about the stamina...nobody can't win in long session moneygame or big tournament without having it. Rich should write a test for figuring out the talent:)
Mary, Mary!
This article deserves a 10! Awesome, truly. I agree with Phil in that I believe the foundation for building success in one's own game is a realistic, objective assessment of one's own weaknesses. Adopting strategies and tactics that subsequently avoid your own "misgivings" is at least then possible. Otherwise there is nothing to add, because you covered every detail!
Even to the extent of finding a perfect third person pronoun, of English derivation, to describe the average backgammon player, (of either sex). That this term was originally developed by the great backgammon theoretician Oscar Mayer is merely coincidental.
Excellent article!
Some people may think I am full of bologna, but to them I say: Baloney!
I agree with all the above, both in the article and the comments made in response to it, but especially sense of humour; if dice disaster strikes, I try & laugh it off (well,most times!). Much better for you and your opponent than having a moan. Can I also add one other quality - humility. You may have had a lucky victory, or even a crushing one, over a better player, or a worse one. Be glad to have won.Treat your opponent with respect.
Wonderful writing 2boot ! This is going on my wall, thanks !
Great article written by someone with the experience (and trophies) to back it up. I'm surprised you didn't include the principle you recommended to me not so long ago: "imagination is a good thing as long as you keep it in check." That will by my #11 to scribble onto your list and bring to every tournament.
Chuck
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